Yes, I know they're usually a very safe, but now you feel a little nervous and a little insecure. Maybe he did, it was a lot of weddings, and if so, I bet you have not carefully studied the best man. Bridesmaid, maybe - but not the best man No doubt you've had much better things to do!.
Chill, baby. This will be a cinch for you. Let's go through everything they need to know, and remove it with class and simplicity. You'll be the man of the hour, if they are small, with this crash course. A man who is true confidence.
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The best man is the person chosen to "defend the groom" at the wedding. The best man should be of age, as it serves as a witness to the wedding. (Remember, all advertising of marriage, marriage is a legal contract! 'S).
During the ceremony, the best man standing next to the groom (right of the groom). If other male employees (ushers or groomsmen), who are on the right side.
If there is no ring bearer wedding (the little cushion use these small fliers in which the rings are sometimes connected) may require the best man to hold the rings during the ceremony, and that the great moment for trade couple vows and rings.
As the best man serves as a witness, at the end of the ceremony, the bride, the groom, and the maid or maid of honor (of a witness), to witness the signing of documents continue.
After the ceremony, accompanied by the best man or the maid of bridesmaid down the aisle, after just behind the bride and groom.
Can you have it all explained in detail, and you have the opportunity to practice and ask questions during the wedding rehearsal a day or two before the wedding - when everything seems to add a bit overwhelming and difficult, do not worry.
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So who is a witness to a wedding? If you have these questions, you are second guessing friend. The groom was chosen because you are the man! He knows what he's doing, so relax.
The best man can be the best friend of the groom, or a friend of the bridegroom, who can be a brother, a brother or other close relative of the groom, even may be the father or stepfather of the groom - something personal, in the opinion of this expert wedding rocks (which could be more than deserves this honor dad?).
What are the duties of the best man?
It is best to start with the first part, okay? If desired, you can receive a funeral for the groom. Bet you did not need to explain what it is. Remember that deer are optional and must be taken, but you can if you want - and if the groom is not against the idea. (No, really. Some guys do not want a deer). You can also ask other agents to men's wedding if they want to welcome, but not required. It is recommended that you discuss your intentions with her husband before. Concrete plans for a deer Some kids have to have agreements with their women, there was no funeral, and others have promises about types of activities, and not likely to be affected. This can. A very sensitive issue for many brides-to-be, and today, many nurses, of their own volition, and not just to make things quite docile and soft last thing I do, the best man is torn between creating bride and groom, so do not forget to tell the man to determine the type of activities they are interested in taking and what will be acceptable.
Visit tuxedo accessories or costumes at the scheduled time.
All meetings prior to wedding parties or for wedding attendants.
Visit the wedding rehearsal and rehearsal dinner (this part is easy to do and enjoy!).
On the day of the wedding, the bride's house before the ceremony to come for moral support, and to ensure reaching the church on time!
Hang payment ceremony officiant (priest, rabbi or religious officiant, or the judge in the case of a civil marriage) and payments for the ceremony musician (organist, soloist, string ensemble, etc.), and each is paid to end of the ceremony.
It may need to be in the receiving line, immediately after the start ceremony or reception. Sometimes the best man and groomsmen are exempt from participation in the receiving line - which will give the couple.
It is a tradition and custom that the best man to shoot the couple at the reception. If you are as excited about your choice, you can. Also toast the bride or a toast to the bride and groom together as a couple Please no hot stories - this is not the time or place. Grandmother and great aunt married Alice will be there. Not to mention his new wife. Stay chic.
Sometimes the best man also was asked to serve as master of ceremonies (also known as MC) at the reception, while in other cases, a completely different person to play this role. If you MC asked at the right time, usually after a meal, is tasked to sit introducing the wedding party at the head of the table, and announce special guests (as wives, great-great- great-grandmother) o - outsiders. To make known in due time, one of the people who are going to offer a toast or a speech. You can find all the messages that have been sent to the bride and groom read out of town guests who are not, and could ads were others to do to you. Well, do not let this stress - the bride and groom would with the notes and instructions in writing to ask in the introduction and announce that you learn to not be able to offer memory! After a dinner party is over, and the game really starts to lead the way, all the tasks normally MC or DJ for the leader of the band are supported by what the party!
Offering payments hanging by suppliers serving. The receipt and disbursement of payments to suppliers with the right people at the end of the reception
Give the bride and groom a smooth exit at the end of the reception. Make sure the car waiting on them, or take the new Mr. and Mrs. itself (only if you only drink soda pop rigid overnight, otherwise the wheel let someone sober).
Various other tasks:
You may be asked to help in decorating cars occasional mission or reception room on the wedding day or other small tasks. The couple let you know if you need any of these kinds of favors you.
What are the fees is the best man in charge?
As the best man, you need to cover the cost of your wedding attire - tuxedo or suit, shirt, tie, shoes suitable. In general, the couple will choose the dress for you and other wedding attendants, but always put so paid. The couple can rent tuxedos and other agents (which usually run between $ 50 - $ 100), new costumes, or, in the case of a less formal wedding, a simple life that few buy a suit and allow (assuming you have one that is the case) to carry, but do not hold your breath on that!
Like all the other guests, also budget for a gift for the happy couple need, when you give them. The label says that gifts at a wedding ever "necessary" and should never be expected from the couple. But while the wedding gifts are not mandatory, are common, so what they do best.
If not in the same city or town where the marriage takes place live, etiquette requires that spending. Housing cover few employees who travel, have to witness the ceremony (but you pay for your own transportation) Well, to stay here, not all brides and grooms today are on the label, as it should be. If the bride and groom outside the fact that it seems to do the right thing for them, you can always send this item to give a smooth handoff.
Since it is in a nutshell man suit. With all this information under your belt, you draw from this concert, as he has done again and again before the end. Now only one last message ... Enjoy your wedding!
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